4°) Chatting

The Golden Rules of Chatting

About this lesson

  • Always keep control of the conversation → Never wait for the subscriber to take the lead, you set the pace.
  • Stay fun and natural → He should feel that you’re cool and unique. Talk as if you were chatting with a friend, but never forget why you’re there.
  • One step at a time → Don’t jump straight to sex or sales. First build connection, then sexualize, and only then offer media.
  • Think relationship, not just sales → A loyal subscriber who comes back again and again is worth far more than a single big sale.
  • Every piece of media should be an experience → Never send “just” a photo or video. Always make it enjoyable for the fan and leave him wanting more.

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Bonus – Create a consistent story for your model.

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Many completely improvise their model’s story. Very bad idea. ❌

A fan doesn’t just pay to see content, he pays to build a connection with a real person, with a story and a personality.

In practice → create a clear storytelling in advance (her personality, her daily life, her backstory, her motivations).

Result: the fan wants to know more, he gets attached, and he’ll be much more likely to trust her.

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